While hanging out ,one of my friend told me 'If I choose Engineering , I will be more happy'. I told her if you choose Engineering you must be saying I should take Finance or something else. Its a fact now days nobody is happy in what they have. I am observing this everyday while in restaurant when ,we order even according to our own favourite dishes. Suddenly what we like will transform into my dish is not that good , even it is best also. It is going on everywhere even with me too. There was a time when my Mother advised me to ,' learn to love your own things even they are worst make them right'. She wants me to follow this as phases passed I started following. I live with contentment.
There is nothing like this is good or bad, first learn to love your own things even they are worst ,whatever it is. People don't focus on what they have, instead they focussed on thinking ' I wished I have this what she have'. You will not get anything except regrets every time. I saw many relations are destroyed just due to this massive thinking , people are not happy in what they have instead thinking I should have what others have. Stop being a masochist , you will never get anything except for crestfallen.
If you have a medium bike , don't feel bad that its not good instead feel enlightened at least you have it ,you don't need to borrow from others . Be greatful for what you have in life at least you have it is your own. Haveing things which owned you , is itself a great pleasure if you think it positively, your all things belongs to you. Love your own things howsoever it may be whether its your course, career, jobs,spouse,all materialistic things turn them to in a right direction at least you have it and they belong to you.
Trust me there is only pleasure in life when we seek to appreciate our own belongingness. We start living a happy life.
Always remember
A greatful heart is a magic of miracles.