You have best! in your own

While hanging out ,one of my friend told me 'If I choose Engineering , I will be more happy'. I told her if you choose Engineering you must be saying I should take Finance or something else. Its a fact now days nobody is happy in what they have. I am observing this everyday while in restaurant when ,we order even according to our own favourite dishes. Suddenly what we like will transform into my dish is not that good , even it is best also. It is going on everywhere even with me too. There was a time when my Mother advised me to ,' learn to love your own things even they are worst make them right'. She wants me to follow this as phases passed I started following. I live with contentment.
    There is nothing like this is good or bad, first learn to love your own things even they are worst ,whatever it is. People don't focus on what they have, instead they focussed on thinking ' I wished I have this what she have'. You will not get anything except regrets every time. I saw many relations are destroyed just due to this massive thinking , people are not happy in what they have instead thinking I should have what others have. Stop being a masochist , you will never get anything except for crestfallen.
        If you have a medium bike , don't feel bad that its not good instead feel enlightened at least you have it ,you don't need to borrow from others . Be greatful for what you have in life at least you have it is your own. Haveing things which owned you , is itself a great pleasure if you think it positively, your all things belongs to you. Love your own things howsoever it may be whether its your course, career, jobs,spouse,all materialistic things turn them to in a right direction at least you have it and they belong to you.

Trust me there is only pleasure in life when we seek to appreciate our own belongingness. We start living a happy life.

Always remember
A greatful heart is a magic of miracles.

Under pressure

Most of the time a serious question in any interview How you adapt yourself under pressure ? It happens with me too in my previous Internships interviews same question . By the time I actually didn't really go with under pressure much so , I move on my story with some past experience to the Interviewer. Today was the most challenging day as of now in which from my morning to now its 4 am everything's been tragic. When I wake up I was late then I want to check my important mails and Telegram app for internship purpose . Disasterly my mobile stopped working and my lappy also give up today . Its was a painful feeling when your gadgets stopped even in important time. I need to submit my internship assignment today itself and I don't have my Gizmo's with me. My co- interns were tried to contact me but no chance. I had my semester day after tomorrow and I need to attend my classes in noon. I thought of leaving everything and chill . But the moment I thought to relax one question again and again irritating me Why I started , if I thought of leaving? Its just a situation , I am not that weak . I went to service center there was a big que I need to wait but this time my patience works . I literally thank god at least my cell is OK. Even my all data of assignment my hard work was lost . I tried to fix things and again I thought of leaving this curd. Its 3 pm I need to go to classes it was important I lost my ID card. Seriously most worst situation but somehow I managed to attend my class. It's 8pm my co interns keep updating me I did my assignment and moment of discouragement for me. I have to attend an event for discussion that was compulsory through webinar of 2 hour's. It was a total under pressure for me my main task was not even half done. Deadlines were 12pm I send my assignment just now with perfection what I want . I know its late but I need to fight with my pressure.
While writing its totally sounds hilarious was it really under pressure or a myth .
It happens with all of us ,but fighting with situations makes things hilarious after completing and at least I got a good answer for my future interviews.

Things  to  keep in mind while thinking that its under pressure

1. Its just a myth-  Yes! its sounds funny but its a myth there is no under pressure . Its all in the mind guys .

2. Never give up- Many times we go through leave it ' its not my cup of tea'  but don't give try it again even when things are worst.

3. Don't disheartened- People even moments will criticise you , but don't feel bad instead make it a challenge .

4. Go against time - It doesn't mean its necessary sometimes , you lost your deadline in any respect .Just ignore thinking ' Time gone how can I do ' instead think  'I  can and I will do'.

5. You are not that weak- Always ask this question ,  because you are not . Think about any event or your struggle which you overcome .

6. Don't let fear overcome you- Fear of too much work or why is this all happening to me. Just avoid it! You are warrior instead of asking yourself why me? Just say Try me!.

Always remember situations will eat you , abhor you but you need to stay calm after all you are a WARRIOR!!.

#01 January kick : Think BIG!

Yesterday I along with my friend was comeing back from our classes, she saw Jaguar and said wow I told her you will buy it soon in future. She said , I will never buy I can't afford even in my whole life ever. I was wondering why people think small?  I was noticing this thing from the last week many of the  people I know, they were not even thinking beyond what they can.
Why do people are afraid to think beyond their limits?
Why they tag themselves with a limit?
Why we are making our thinking, so small that we will never get even in our future?

Whatever we want in our life , we need to think beyond it something big only then we will achieve something more. Nobody has dare to put fullstop in our thinking, then why we are doing it?
We never know what tomorrow is going to happen , then why we predict that we will never do. One of the biggest advantage is that in order to think something big at least we gain something more.

Today's world is not about just doing one thing and not even automatically, everything will come in your way. It is one of the biggest mistake in our thinking , as today's world is all about multitasking you need to keep chasing for your position nowadays. So,  why we should think that we can only do this not more than that? If we think like that we will surely not adapt in current scenario. We need to change our thinking, we need to think something big so that our mind will automatically work more than our capabilities.

When we think that we can do this only,
Then we do that much only.
But when we think we can do everything
Then we can do anything.

#eina

These lines must be in everyone's mind so that they will never criticise what they can.

Its a fact, think big guys because you even don't know if you people think like this you can achieve beyond what you think.

A request

Diwali is just around the corner and we all are excited for celebrating this auspicious festival of lights. We wish each other to live their life with happiness and prosperity.We all are excited before 20 days approx for this festival and we start doing many preparations. We buy new clothes , decorate our homes , prepare delicious dishes, buy many sweets ,give each other gifts and we spend Rs.500 to Rs.10000 approx and even more varies from person to person.
     Diwali is festival of lights and light resembles happiness in every ones life. There are many people in our India who are not able to celebrate this festival of lights. We all celebrate this day as holiday eat sweets and enjoy , but there are many people who worked even in that day and there's is no excitement in their face. Diwali is just another day for them just because they are not able to afford things like us. They also wishes to celebrate,enjoy,eat,burn crackers but they cant. Lets make this Diwali happy for them I am not saying give everything to them. As we all are together lets take a step because as said , "Journey of thousands miles begins with a single step".I don't want much from you all but we can gives a box of sweets to these people and make them smile .We all spend so much amount for buying crackers, we can take small amount from them and make someones Diwali happy. I bet you guys, if you make their Diwali happy , then you made your Diwali special. Their is no happiness in this world like when you made them happy.
      Lets join hands together 
1.Find people in your cities,towns who are not able to afford.
2.Give them a box of sweets or anything according to your capability
3.Hug them and wish them Happy Diwali
These three simple steps makes your Diwali special and I want you all to spread this message to your family,friends,relatives, neighborhood etc.

I wish you all a very very Happy Diwali may all your dreams come true.  

You might be wondering what this lifting is ...It means , when things are blue in your life then dont be demotivated by your present condition or past . The main problem with us is 'fear of people ' or 'log kya kahenge' . People will say they will bark but you have to lift yourself so that their so called, beautiful words will not affect you . People will say in your good time and even most important in your bad time also but make yourself strong so that their words will fail infront of you. Fight like a warrior have a beautiful smile in every situation whether its good or bad . You have immense power in yourself which is not spoiled by people , Be smart enough and be strong so that you can block confidence of people who wants to lift you down...

Its not the end....

Everybody in this world go  their strong times …I also.

When I was in my boarding school  twelth standard their was a time in my life where I have to show what I am , I have to prove what I can do. Things were opposite for me that time but it was the bestest experience I had .You might be wondering why I am saying strong time for some bad experiences?

The reason is they build you strong even more stronger and we all learn something from them. Sometimes we had situations they were opposite , but if we know how to stand up for ourself  then we can do anything. Dear all readers trust me nobody can beat you even your bad time.. There was no one who can tell me or motivate me it was only me who build myself strong .I wrote some lines for myself so that I can build myself strong and become a warrior by fighting with the situation.

I wrote these lines on 20^th July 2013 , but whenever I feel low I read my poem and I felt always to do more than I can ..I want you all to read my lines and hope that they will lift your situations.

ITS NOT THE END…..

 

May be the way up , is not easy to take

May be all your life , is at stake

May be your life , will have to risk all your saveings

May be a good result ,this may not

But you will have to, believe in yourself

You will have to , stand up for yourself

Because this is the reason , we are sent

Because this is not , just the end

May be you will, you stand up  all alone

May be you will, got no support

While you mourn

May be you will at your best

But still at worst

May be your dreams will, break and burst

But through all difficulties

You will have to stand,

You will have to keep confidence,

Through obstacles small or grand

Because this is the reason we are sent

Because this is just not end

But you will have to,  keep faith in yourself

And continue the fight

Believe in you what you do, is right

Because this is the reason , we are sent

Because this is just not end.

           -Samriddhi Tiwari